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Time to Hurry

By: Neil Mufson
Mr. Mufson theorizes about what we ask of our children when we continually ask them to hurry.
Every once in a while a parent tells me something her child has said that is not just funny but also truly wise. Often these off-the-cuff remarks also cause us adults to stop, consider the way our children experience the world, and re-think something we just take for granted.
 
An experienced and wonderful mom who is nearing the end of her last child’s middle school years recently shared this:
 
She has a large number of kids by today’s standards. Extremely well organized and attuned to her children, she also has very clear routines and expectations which require adhering to a schedule and executing things in a timely way. One day when the kids were still quite little, she was rushing everyone along when her oldest said, “Mom, it takes time for me to hurry.”
 
What do we inadvertently convey to our children when we focus on responsibility, the Country School value for November, and hurrying on to the next thing (even when it is very necessary to avoid a complete breakdown of routine)? What are we missing at times like this and what impact does this have on our kids? How else could we fashion experiences so that we consider what we are truly asking our children to do? 
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